I have slowly come to realize that Zoe and Arlo spent alot of time playing together.  Now that he’s gone I am the one that she must play dress ups, Jack and Annie, Veterinarian, Doctor, chase, etc… with.  I find myself saying, “after I finish…” alot more.  He was always there.  Always willing to chase her, let her dress him up, lay down so she could doctor on him, and simply watch her play.  That is now what I find myself doing alot more than I used too.  I’ve always played with her, but now I realize how much time Arlo also played with her.  Tomorrow I will go pick up his ashes.